28. Overseas Utopias

There are countless videos on YouTube bringing you a message of hope and salvation. If you are broke and can’t find a date just get a passport and move to Shangri-La. A mystical land where immortality reigns and life is like an endless pleasure cruise.

It used to be easy. Poor women from the Philippines and other exotic locales would gush over a tall white guy from Toledo leaving his minimum wage Walmart stock checker gig to find a young, pretty obedient girl. That game if it ever existed is over now. Instead you will meet a pro at a bar that will honey pot you more than Winnie-The-Pooh.

She will entice you and then rob you blinder than Stevie Wonder on a new moon. Your savings will be squandered and pilfered faster than a drunk sailor on shore leave. If you are lucky you will have enough money to buy a plane ticket home.

The low cost-of-living you seek will be a mirage. Yes you can live cheap but only if you live like a native. You won’t want that because you are spoiled and entitled. To live like an American, outside of America, will cost almost as much as it does in America.

The passport bros and digital nomads you see online exaggerate their lives. Most return home empty handed begging for their McJob back. The real money is being a content creator peddling these myths and lies.

It is possible. But possible is not the same as probable. Expats with a pension, social security or savings to last for a while return anyway because they don’t really like living as an outsider foreigner that the natives see as a lunch ticket… or just lunch. The legal system is not the same for foreigners. You can end up in a jail worse than your nightmares can imagine. There will be a target on your back and lots of sharpshooters. Criminals will hunt you. Thefts, muggings and kidnappings are commonplace. And if you complain the police will rob you or jail you. Maybe both. You will have no rights.

Here’s the deal. If you can’t make it in your own country you will find it a lot harder in somebody else’s country. If you can make it you will want to stay.

There is one other option. Find an expat here. A woman that moved to the USA. If she was raised properly she may stay that way. The odds are against this however. Most quickly adopt Western (feminist) values and morph into blue-haired independent cat ladies like the rest. But then the odds are irrelevant since you just need that special one. A good strategy is to start close to home finding those that match your own ancestry and religion. She is out there and is likely as dismayed as you with the warped degenerate dating scene and will be happy to find you.